let people talk as they want...
english proverb said, "action speak louder tahn voice"..
is it true??
erm, im wonder why,,sometime when we talk, people will isjudge and misinterpret on it. And what is suprising me, they will start to blame us, start to say that, say this... sometime they cannot accept and agree on what we say, they just totally reject and fight back blindly..
But, when we shut up, it also be a problem to certain people. unfortunately, people still msijudge and misunderstand to us. Why uh? any thought out there?? Im so curious... sometime we will feel that, it ios better do nothing rather than do something. We will be in dillemma, do or not, people still keep buzy upon us. hey, that was wrong, this was wrong....
yup, it is true, critics help us perfect...
redo and recorrect..but it has a certain limit and manner...
isn't?? Agree?
critics which is help us, give us guidance and spirit is very okay..
but, if the critics is just to dampen us...it is not fair right???
Some people keep saying that,,
"It is hard to make others happy and satisfied with us..."
What ever it is, we just only us...
People change for the seek of blessing is very good and encouraged...
Just do it what ever we think right and as long as we not over act on it....
We need to keep ourselp in the right path..nothing is questionable...
Only Allah knows deeply in ourself...
He knows everything...in all what we doing, what we saying, what we eating and so on and so forth...
No body is perfect in this worl...
We can correct ourselves from past experiences, some advices from others and muhasabah ourselves...
Sometime we didnt see what is our mistakes and our weaknesses.... we can ask people around us because only them can realize about it.
What we can do, we just free our mind and our heart in receiving any critics and opinions from others.
BE OPEN...
"What is reasonable, keep it as a guide, What is ridiculous, just throw it away""
Let us make our life simple but meaningful.... Since we just temporary in this world... sooner or later, we will go over there... World just only world... but hereafter is forever....
Just keep remember, at anytime and anywhere He can take us away just at a glance....
CONTINUE
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